No, you cannot. If you have agreed that there should be a pension sharing or pension attachment order, you should agree a consent order which sets out the agreement you have reached. The Consent Order will need to be approved by the Court and sent to the pension provider to implement. It is unlikely that you will need to attend Court for the consent order to be approved as generally the District Judge will be happy to do this based on the consent order and a statement of information form which is filed with it.
You could simply reach an agreement whereby your spouse pays you a set amount of their pension on a voluntary basis without Court order, however, this is a very dangerous way to proceed as, if your former spouse passed away, the payments would stop.
The safest way of splitting pensions is to have a pension sharing order. This will be paid to you regardless of whether your former spouses passes away or if you remarry.
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